Is this Perfectly Normal? About Dogs..

Chuck

Chuck

Well-known member
Or rather, a dog you helped raise who love you more than anything else?

So here's my situation. I lived with my Shiba Mickey for 6-7 years and since the day I brought him home as a pup, we have been inseparable. The way he looks at me and shows me affection like no other, and he constantly reminds me of that. He literally saved me from suicide when I was depressed out of my mind. I moved out and left him with my parents because I felt it would've been unfair to take him from them cause they wanted more company (they are grandparents now), but honestly, it just left me feeling there was a hole in my heart. Like something was missing?

Ever since, I met my girlfriend, got engaged, and renovated my home. We got two cats during this time, but honestly, it did nothing in the long run to "fill that void". My parents were kind enough to let me stay at their place for 2 months, and the memories came flooding back. The look of sheer joy the first night I was back, I felt that "void" being filed back up (if that makes any sense). The way he relied on me and how he constantly reminded me I am his favorite human, sure warms my heart.

Now fast forward to last night when I moved back home with my cats and fiance when renovation was nearly done. Instead of happiness like I should feel, I find I was rather depressed. Missing the heck out of my boy.

Sorry about the long read, but guys, is this perfectly normal?
 
stormy13 said:
Yes. Now go and bring him home.
Click to expand...
:yes:

Does your parents give the man love and attention ? Then maybe let him stay there too. You can go and visit.

I had to the same with my Jack Russel during divorce. He got spoiled at my parents, parents were home 24/7 (retired). My dad played fetch with Jack etc. He would have been alone during the day at my rent home during divorce, which would suck for him. So I left him at my parents, but got to see him all the time.

He was in good hands with the parentals! He passed because of old age.. but he got spoiled.
 
Get a new pup so you can raise him with the cats. I love my pups. But remember that their time on earth is fairly short so you will never have your best friend forever. Your parents probably need him now and you are a very good person to be so unselfish. A new pup can fill this void. It’s a transition you will have to deal with sooner or later anyway. Now might be a good time. Plus, you will have much better luck picking a breed that can get along with cats and introducing the pup to cats early is best for them to establish a good relationship too. it’s hard, but its the most optimal solution for everyone.
 
SD-[Inc] said:
Get a new pup so you can raise him with the cats. I love my pups. But remember that their time on earth is fairly short so you will never have your best friend forever. Your parents probably need him now and you are a very good person to be so unselfish. A new pup can fill this void. It’s a transition you will have to deal with sooner or later anyway. Now might be a good time. Plus, you will have much better luck picking a breed that can get along with cats and introducing the pup to cats early is best for them to establish a good relationship too. it’s hard, but its the most optimal solution for everyone.
Click to expand...

:yep:

best pup for cats

https://www.pinterest.com/pin/101894010299791954/
:evil:
 
Sundance Kid V2 said:
:yes:

Does your parents give the man love and attention ? Then maybe let him stay there too. You can go and visit.

I had to the same with my Jack Russel during divorce. He got spoiled at my parents, parents were home 24/7 (retired). My dad played fetch with Jack etc. He would have been alone during the day at my rent home during divorce, which would suck for him. So I left him at my parents, but got to see him all the time.

He was in good hands with the parentals! He passed because of old age.. but he got spoiled.
Click to expand...

Yeah both my parents love him to bits. I can tell he's a very big part of their daily routine. I'd pretty much be a terrible son if I took Mickey back.

Besides, he's a jealous pooch. Afraid it won't end well for either of them. :(
 
Chuck said:
Yeah both my parents love him to bits. I can tell he's a very big part of their daily routine. I'd pretty much be a terrible son if I took Mickey back.

Besides, he's a jealous pooch. Afraid it won't end well for either of them. :(
Click to expand...
Sounds like he is in good hands.

You can always visit the man.
 
Chuck said:
Yeah both my parents love him to bits. I can tell he's a very big part of their daily routine. I'd pretty much be a terrible son if I took Mickey back.

Besides, he's a jealous pooch. Afraid it won't end well for either of them. :(
Click to expand...

That's comforting. I was going to say "Go get your doggo" but if he's happy where he's at then the real answer is "Adopt another doggo"
 
Thanks guys, but getting a dog right now will feel like I am "cheating" on him.
Unfortunately, though his cancer is in remission the vet says it can come back at any time. Don't think he has a year to live. :cry:

Besides, home is rather small (450 sq. ft) and my finances aren't exactly stable cause of the crazy amount of $$$ involved in crazy Asian weddings.

I am positive I will get a new dog eventually but I guess, some time later. :)
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top